It's not easy, and it's not something that I can do overnight. But I'm starting to see that being a "budak" – a slave to the expectations of others – is not only unhealthy, but it's also unsustainable. I deserve to be free, to live my life on my own terms, and to prioritize my own happiness.
As a family member, I'm expected to be a certain type of person – supportive, caring, and always available. I feel pressure to meet these expectations, even if it means sacrificing my own goals and aspirations. I'm often asked to help with family matters, whether it's financial, emotional, or physical, and I feel like I have no choice but to comply. It's not easy, and it's not something that
I'm not sure what the road ahead will bring, but I'm ready to find out. I'm ready to live my life on my own terms, to prioritize my own happiness, and to break free from the weight of expectations. As a family member, I'm expected to be